| Best Sexual Satisfaction-Foreplay Foreplay is a fundamental part of the whole lovemaking experience. Long and sensual foreplay before intercourse leads to the best sexual satisfaction.
Some great tips for good foreplayNever presume anything about women when it comes to sex. Play it safe at first. If she likes anything kinky, she’ll let you know, but don’t make assumptions on your own. You might find something hot, but chances are she might find it absolutely appalling. Set a good ambience for both of you. Once the mood is right, take the time to undress each other slowly and deliberately, because the act of removing your partner's clothes can be an important part of successful foreplay. Many find that undressing stimulates and intensifies the feeling, and increases the eroticism. Always kiss her first. Kissing is the best way to get her in tune to your mood, so make it long, passionate and imaginative. Hold her face in your hands, play with her hair... Be romantic! Women particularly enjoy kissing and nibbling attention to the neck, ears and shoulders. The inner surfaces of arms and legs are also sensitive places you can gently explore. Nibble! Nibble! Nibble! ALL women like to be nibbled... Everywhere! Whisper sweet nothings into her ears, it really works. Women love to hear how sexy they are (almost all the time). If she likes to hear you talk dirty, give it to her. Let her know how much she turns you on. Tell her how beautiful she is. Don't pressure her. Unless she's into domination, getting snappy with her is not going to arouse her. Take your time and don’t get frustrated. Touching is very important. Hold her as close to you as possible; gently hold your nose, chest, abdomen or hip against hers. She may seem shy, but she will love every bit of it. However, make sure you’re not suffocating or stifling her with your weight. Pay close attention to the way her breathing and muscle tension change as you touch different parts of her body in different ways. That’s her subconscious way of telling you what she likes, so you can do more of it. Try different levels of pressure from light to very firm. Nipple biting, chewing and suckling are not turn-ons for a majority of the women. Use your tongue to flick her nipples and the areola region. If you simply must bite, then take her nipple between your teeth and tug at it very gently. And while you’re at it, be sensitive to her moans. Women love cunnilingus, but only if it's done well. You should be excited about doing it, otherwise don’t do it just for the heck of it. Start with your fingers and then progress to the tongue. Focus on the whole mound, not just the Golden Spot and use variations. Don't just stick your finger in her vagina and wiggle it, you can use your other hand to caress her thighs, butt and breasts. Also, be aware of your facial stubble and sharp nails that might cause her any discomfort. Be courteous during fellatio. Most women don't like it when you grab their head or hair and shove it in your crotch. Don't slam yourself down her throat like a battering ram; you’ll only succeed in making her sick. Let her know when you're about to cum; some women don’t like such kind of surprises. Even though many women love to swallow, give her the option of choosing whether or not she wants to. Don't cum on her face or in her hair. Use sex toys or any other props at your discretion, only if it’s a mutual turn-on. When everything’s going on very well, the last thing you would want to see is the look of horror on her face. Women love to be rubbed and massaged erotically. Use warm scented oils once in a while. Work your fingers into her flesh and spend a little extra time on the lower back. Women have sensitive feet which tire easily. A foot massage is a fabulous way to get her to relax and arouse her at the same time. Remember to prolong the foreplay with more kissing and caressing. Caressing her makes her feel very special, so do it every time one or both of your hands are free. |