| Self confidence
FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, AND EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE. What has led you to lose your confidence? Your looks? Your inexperience with women? Your lack of social graces? Here’s something that only YOU can do: Identify the cause of your low self-esteem and work towards rectifying it. Always remember that Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence. A poor self-image directly affects the way you behave around others, and how they behave around you. That dreaded fear of rejection can make you extremely shy or overeager to please. Your insecurities can induce jealousy, damaging any hope of a good relationship. Your self-esteem has a direct bearing on your ability to attract others. We human beings are more observant than we’d like to give ourselves credit for. If you act strangely, others will treat you the same way. On the other hand, if you think that you're a pretty good guy (and don’t fan your ego too much), women will take notice. When you have a positive self-esteem, you feel your worth. Don't EVER think that you can't change the image you’re projecting to those around you! There's a lot that you can do to not only build up your own self-esteem, but to change the way that others see you. Here are some tips for starters:
The key is to identify your embarrassment and to act upon it. Whatever it is that's making you feel bad about yourself, CHANGE IT! Attitude IS everything. Ever wondered how that ugly guy at work always manages to pick up some of the hottest women in town? He doesn’t let his ugliness bother him too much. What’s he got that you haven’t? Self-confidence. |